A new home, and not enough hours
When my husband and I married, we set out to build a home we loved coming back to. I was also working full time as a software engineer, and it did not take long to see the gap. Long days at a desk and longer drives home left very little of the evening for the laundry, the bins and the hundred small things a home asks for.
We did not want to choose between our careers and our space. We wanted both to work.